
1. Do not respond to questions or comments from potentially dangerous strangers, except to return a hello and politely move on.
2. Do not walk past alleys or other hidden areas when you feel insecure. Walk down the center of the street instead.
3. Do no be loud, boisterous, or silly on the street. Such behavior calls unnecessary attention to your self, which is dangerous. This does not mean one must be boring, but it does mean behaving like an adult in full control at all times.
4. Do not carry large sums of money or jewelry. People get mugged in the city all the time, so do not carry what you cannot afford to lose. It is wise to carry a five dollar bill wrapped around two singles apart from your wallet, however, to give a mugger as you flee.
5. Do not give money to panhandlers. Some people will make up savvy excuses and fake scenarios to try to get you to give them money. Others will really need help. At times it may be appropriate to stop and share a meal or a conversation, but rarely is it wise to give cash. It is dangerous, patronizing, and generally the opposite of helpful. Respectfully apologize to the person asking for money.
6. Do not take photos of homes, neighborhoods, or people you do not know. Be careful with your camera. Think how you might feel being ‘documented’ like some kind of sideshow attraction. Take photos to celebrate your friends and neighbors, not just to show off the harshness of where you are.
7. Do not accept rides with strangers or acquaintances. Sounds obvious, but we’ve seen it done.
8. Do not enter a new or unfamiliar home alone. Part of the reason Jesus sent people out in pairs was to keep them safe. Sadly enough, today we also sometimes need witnesses and alibis to protect against false accusations.
9. Do not allow strangers into your home. If they have an emergency, offer to call 911, but leave them outside the door.
10. Do not involve yourself in violent altercations or angry disputes under any circumstances. Things are not always as they seem in the city, and you can never trust your judgment when it comes to other people’s quarrels. You do not know enough to intervene in such situations, most especially in domestic disputes. If you see someone in danger simply call 911 immediately and pray.